Ladies, just like we need to understand how you guys think, it works both ways. I'm going to give you this pointer to help your finesse game. How you use it is totally on you. Be careful that you are not in a relationship with a man who is only dating you. Recognize the essence of who you are is an addictive drug of choice to a man. Your presence takes him away from his world, which is why he likes you around. If he doesn't commit, it is because of one word, FEAR. For men in