Don't entertain the entertainment...... By now, ladies, you should have warmed up to our awakenings, we are virtuous women, and if you have on the right fit, (the armor) you know what your Worth, what you Want, and what you are Willing to deal with. You are most definitely not insane… So, act like it. When that issue becomes that issue, plan your strategic moves, yes, you have to make plans, set up goals, and make moves.
First things first, the signs are there. Are you really in a relationship? Should you really be doing the things you are doing, are you really expecting the relationship to grow, is this the man that God sent to you? Did you pray? Yes, girlfriend, I am about 10 questions in… He is your boo and you just met him last week… Let me tell you this, boo needs to be your friend first, get to actually know him that way the bond you create becomes a friendship and if you have to make a move, it is more understandable. Create an atmosphere of positive energy, even in the negative situations.
Now if you are in the relationship and things start to turn sour, don’t drift off to Wonderland, and act as if things are not happening. Honesty, Respect, Humility, are name of the game. You’ve given it your best shot. You are not a failure, you are not incapable of having a long lasting relationship, just have to revert back to those same questions mentioned…. (Did you pray? God sent? etc) WAIT on him….. don’t go looking, and scouting… see there is a reason that game is called “scavenger hunt”…. You’ll catch that tomorrow…
The rebirth of a marriage can be the best thing that ever happens to the marriage. Renewing of vows, telling your spouse why you are still in love with them, why you fell in love with them, and why you will continue loving them… the words that come out of the mouth of someone you love are so powerful. Do you know that communication is the most important part of the Marriage. If there is a problem, acknowledge it, if you are hurting let it be known, if you are feeling some type of way, express it… the only way to deal with a problem is to deal with a problem.
Love day should come as often as you like, you don’t have to wait on Valentine’s, tuh, that’s for babies… Love on him, every day! Don’t be Alice, and stay in a fantasy world, and continue to live in what society expects, evaluate your situation, put forth an effort if it is worth it, and become the most valuable asset to yourself, so you can become the same to someone else!